I’ve always been a… “Say-what-I-mean, and mean what I say,” kind of guy. I’ve never cared for the idea of people having to read between the lines…. Trying to figure out what I was talking about. I don’t want anyone wasting time in translation, either. When we, as managers and leaders, speak with CLARITY and CONCISENESS, then reading between the lines is not really necessary…right?
Well, that would be true, if all mangers/leaders spoke with CLARITY… but they don’t. Most managers, and leaders, simply “don’t care.” They’re attitude is… ‘Let them figure it out for themselves’…I’m the BOSS, I can talk the way I want to. There is no difference in “our-work-life”… or our home life. Our children, teens, young adults… and our spouses… deserve to have a clear understanding as to what is going on, it’s purpose, and the expected results. It’s only FAIR.
It is much easier to ‘speak-with-clarity’… getting it right the first time… then to repeat ourselves over and over. Besides… if our ‘follower’s’ are truly following…then they’re also …truly LISTENING. A good Leader must be a GOOD SPEAKER, as well. He should make it a PRACTICE to speak in PRECISE-TERMS… so there are no miss-understandings. He doesn’t have to be ELEGANT… he just has to speak in the same terms that the majority of his listeners are using.
A good leader/speaker, will know how to balance his method of presentation… such that, the listener and the speaker will have a ‘meeting of the minds.’ Also, a good leader/speaker will know how to READ his audience. It’s no different than a Minister speaking to his Congregation… he will speak at their receptive level; not over their heads, not under the level of understanding… but precisely at their level of understanding…. Otherwise, he’s speaking on deaf ears.
I know we all have experienced having our ‘instructions’ miss-understood, miss-read, and even…ignored (a leader’s worst nightmare); but if one wants to SURVIVE and EXCELL in the management and leadership fields… then he MUST know how to properly communicate with his audience. We have to speak their same language…. We have to speak… as they hear.
We can take a lesson from the Bible characters, and from God Himself. God was not one to beat around the bush. It was proven time and time again…to LISTEN, and do EXACTLY as He said. Moses and Aaron were denied access to the PROMISED LAND, because they didn’t listen.
James 1:22 – Do not me rely listen to the word, and so deceive yourselves. Do what it says. James 1:19 – My dear brothers and sisters, take note of this: Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak and slow to become angry. Malachi 2:2 – If you do not listen, and if you do not resolve to honor my name,” says the Lord Almighty, “I will send a curse on you, and I will curse your blessings. Yes, I have already cursed them, because you have not resolved to honor me. Matthew 4:4 – Jesus answered, “It is written: ‘Man shall not live on bread alone, but on every word that comes from the mouth of God.’”