“…It seems that, in fact… I do LOVE myself…or, at least I now realize… ‘I like myself’ … a lot more that I thought…”

STAKE….Steak…. I love the English language…. For the most part, we have a number of words that sound the same, but mean entirely different things.  Steak….it means just one thing… meat.  STAKE, on the other hand, could mean “a stake in the ground;” or having a “stake” in a transaction or event.

The word that I’m leading up to, though, is LOVE.  There is no other word for LOVE, but….LOVE.  Yet, it’s probably the “most miss-used” word in the English language.  What different types of LOVE is there?  Love of wife… pets, or woodworking, skiing, or flying airplanes.  Love apple pie, hot-dogs and baseball.  Some love porno, deer hunting, mud-wrestling… or sword swallowing.  Then there is Loving God.  Except for a few, it’s all foolishness.

When we examine the meaning of LOVE… it reflects elements of Fondness, Tenderness, Warmth, Intimacy, Attachment, Humility… and Endearment.  If we APPLY each of these characteristics to each of those listed above.  Does any of it make sense?  How can we use the word LOVE so carelessly?   I often hear people telling their friends (while getting ready to hang up the phone)… ‘Love you!’ Do they ‘really mean it?’ Sure… many people are absolutely genuine when using the term…LOVE.  I would surmise, most….are using the word… LOVE…in the loosest context.

The Bible says in Matthew 19:19 – “Honor your father and mother,’ and ‘love your neighbor as yourself.”   So… how do we LOVE ourselves?  I’ve never thought in terms of LOVING myself, so I discount the verse as not applying to me…but to others.  Yet… recently, I realized that in the mornings… I have this occasional tendency to “observe” myself in the mirror.  I do it while getting dressed, combing my hair, and brushing my teeth.  Most of are guilty of this silly exercise.   So… it seems that, in fact… I do LOVE myself…or, at least I now realize… I like myself … a lot more that I thought.

I don’t love myself… such that I love my wife, or children.  I don’t love my neighbor like I love my wife and children.  But I LIKE my neighbor as I LIKE myself.  With that said… I could say:  I like my dog, woodworking, skiing, flying airplanes, etc.  Am I making any sense here?  OK….I’m probably on this desert-island… all alone.   Over the years, I’ve spent a lot of time there.

I’m a WORK-IN-PROCESS with this ‘loving my neighbor’ as myself.  I’m trying hard, and I know…  I’m IMPROVING.

I think we ought to reserve the word LOVE for our family members… with very little exception, i.e. someone that we hold very dear and near to our heart.  .…….. 1 John 4:7-11 tells us: Beloved, let us love one another, because love is of God; everyone who loves is begotten by God and knows God. Whoever is without love does not know God, for God is love. In this way the love of God was revealed to us: God sent his only Son into the world so that we might have life through him. In this is love: not that we have loved God, but that he loved us and sent his Son as expiation for our sins. Beloved, if God so loved us, we also must love one another.

In “loving our neighbor as ourselves” (as the bible says)… there must be more than one type of LOVE…the family type, and the spiritual type.  That would make all the rest… WORLDLY type… a bunch of double-talk.  We’re being foolish; when we LOVE anything other than “our family and our God.”  I consider that “our neighbor” is an extension of LOVING God; otherwise….everything else falls into the category of LIKING.

Let us not forget John 3:16 – For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life. Romans 5:7-8 – For one will hardly die for a righteous man; though perhaps for the good man someone would dare even to die. But God demonstrates His own love toward us, in that while we were yet sinners, Christ died for us.

PS: Eh…eh…I love’ya. …Blessings….cjlb… 11/30/2017  

About Charles Brooks

who is originally from Miami, Fla., moved to SC, holds two degrees from the University of SC. His business background is primarily in Real Estate Development (Motels, Hotel, Office Buildings, Restaurants, Residential) and Business Consulting. He currently is Managing Director of Brooks, Baker, Lehman & Kohlhepp - Investors in Real Estate and Mining, and has other business interests under the umbrella of Brooks Properties. FULL-TIME-MINISTRY: Fully engaged in spreading the Gospel of Our Lord Jesus Christ, with an emphasis on the Business Community.


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